Sunday, March 22, 2009

90-year-old Feminists keep'n it Real

This is a touching story.
clipped from www.nytimes.com

Having a Bat Mitzvah in Their 90s Because It’s a Hoot

The women grew up in the shadow of the Great Depression, when bar mitzvah ceremonies for boys were weekly affairs but Jewish girls came of age without notice or fanfare.

“Most people in their 90s, they just eat their three meals a day and are happy to be alive,” Rabbi Kutner said. “I think this shows that at any age you can set a challenge and meet it.”

A self-described “feminist all my life,” Evelyn Bonder, 90, said she “always thought girls should have the chance to participate” in something that Conservative, Orthodox and Reform congregations embraced in stages.

“These women have spent their entire lives nurturing other people, and now the spotlight is finally on them,” Rabbi Kutner said.

“You’re doggone right we’re feisty,” Ms. Agin said at one point.

Ms. Agin said: “My daughter had a bat mitzvah. But it was on a Friday instead of a Saturday. It wasn’t held inside the synagogue, and she wasn’t allowed to read from the Torah.”

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